Fortunately, I am blessed with a BFF who knows me, serves with me in the church, and actually talks with me about what I discover in life since I was 12. And she said this:
Thanks Selene. But she also has the support of one of my really good friends, whom I also serve in the church with, and talk to online and in person. And he said this short and sweet:
Thanks Ron and Selene. But my BBF (boy best friend) I've known for the past 5 years, whom I too serve with in the church, talk to daily and care for dearly also seems to have my back. And he said this, after the first comment that was left:
Thank you, Aaron. I've got a gang of supporters, I wonder who else they could rally up? Sorry "Anonymous," but they seem to want to know who is the person behind all this "wisdom." Though, I highly doubt this person will show themselves, they don't seem to muster up the guts to after being called out for their numerous pieces of "advice."
Thanks friends, it was a very surprising and reassuring gesture. I truly know ya'll got my back!
11 comments:
"BBF"? You meant to say "boyfriend" right? nice cover up.
No I've said "BBF" because he's my boy best friend. Get it right cut it ain't no cover up.
hey "anonymous"! you really can't quit can you?! guess you have nothing better to do than probably laugh at your own comments and feel so inspired that you're probably the "sh*t" for knowing EVERYTHING huh. well you do that, cos that just shows how freakin' lame you are. get some friends, get a psycho therapist, and get a life.
hehe. yes mister. i laugh at my wit and how this seems to bother you so much. how, sir, can you say you are not in a relationship and yet you take so much time defending your (non) "platonic" relationship. oh the irony. you are right. i am lame. you know everything that is right in the world. you, sir, have so much leverage over me.
i, seemingly, just tried to offer a gesture of hospitable advice hence the statement of not having consistency and being wishy washy and not doing so. why put a blog about "bummyness" when you cannot handle it when other individuals agree with you. Is it simply just for attention? you publicly say you're a bum so that other people will say "No Gianel. You are completely incorrect. You are the hardest working person I have ever met and you show no action of ever being a lazy buddy, so I must highly disagree with you."
So, do say... was you need to publicly express your dispair to hear someone disagree with you so you feel better about yourself or because you wanted to hear the constructive criticism of those who actually agree with what you have said?
"BBF"? You meant to say "boyfriend" right? nice cover up.
It is obvious that it is not a cover up because they have not openly announced that they are "together." They are not covering up anything because their relationship is out in the open. Obviously, a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship means they are "official." "Official" means one of the two people had made an advancement on the title of their relationship, and have initiated a step forward in their relationship. Again, they have not done so. And if they have done so, we would not know, since they both have not stated anything besides they are building a relationship towards that advancement. What they have done is taken a step into the right direction with strengthening their friendship first. So even though they are not "boyfriend/girlfriend," they have made the commitment to do so in the future, when the time is right. If you knew them, you would know the time is not right. that's why (drum roll) they are not boyfriend/girlfriend. Covering up means what it means. Hiding. Since their relationship is out in the open, what do they have to hide? Don't prejudge till you know all the facts.
i laugh at my wit and how this seems to bother you so much.
Obviously you were the only one laughing, so maybe you should keep that to yourself? I laugh at how you enjoy getting laughs at other people's expense. It is so mature and wonderful coming from such a wise person as yourself. Now that's something you should laugh at. Oh, the thought!
how, sir, can you say you are not in a relationship and yet you take so much time defending your (non) "platonic" relationship. oh the irony. you are right. i am lame. you know everything that is right in the world. you, sir, have so much leverage over me.
As I said before, look at the statement I have written from above. They have not said they are not in a relationship, they have not denied that for a fact. Can't a friendship be a relationship? Maybe a more than friends but not yet official relationship can be a relationship. Right? Do they have a name for that? They have not stated it was only platonic. You assumed. You are pulling "facts" (which are not really facts) out of your butt. Anything that comes out of your butt is crap. Crap is not good for the mind and this type of rhetoric. Actually, you're rhetoric is crap too, to be honest. How's that for constructive criticism.
i, seemingly, just tried to offer a gesture of hospitable advice hence the statement of not having consistency
whoa whoa whoa. Big word for you, buddy. First off, offering a gesture of hospitable advice does not include and should not include your seemingly amazing negative contradicting attitude and your retarded ego (really it is, you should give your ego advice) that you have. To be hospitable means to be favorable of life and growth. Which has a lot to do with goodwill. Your "hospitable advice" does not reflect a good will because of the manner you put it in. Hospitable advice should be given in goodwill, a friendly way, construct criticism should be a process that is EFFECTIVE. IT CANNOT BE EFFECTIVE IF YOU'RE NOT FRIENDLY. YOU CANNOT BE FAVORABLE IF YOU ARE NOT FRIENDLY. To be friendly means to have the other person's thought and feelings in consideration. If you had consideration, we would not be having this conversation now, would we?
why put a blog about "bummyness" when you cannot handle it when other individuals agree with you. Is it simply just for attention? you publicly say you're a bum so that other people will say "No Gianel. You are completely incorrect. You are the hardest working person I have ever met and you show no action of ever being a lazy buddy, so I must highly disagree with you."
Did I miss something? Did she ask of your approval or opinion? Did she ask for your attention? Did she ask you to remind her she is a bum? Did anyone say she is the hardest working person they have met? Are you smart? (Maybe you are a little, I'll try to give you the benefit of the doubt. Jeez, I'm so hospitable like you!)
Agreeing does not mean you can be rude to her as well. AGAIN, are we going back to hospitable advice, because that's not very hospitable. OMG, you highly disagree! Such fascinating, wonderful and hospitable advice!
So, do say... was you need to publicly express your dispair to hear someone disagree with you so you feel better about yourself or because you wanted to hear the constructive criticism of those who actually agree with what you have said?
"was you need to...?" "dispair" Wow. Just... Wow. Coming from a self proclaimed person of great knowledge and wisdom who gives hospitable advice, you would think they knew grammar and spell check.
Her need to publicly express her despair was exactly that. Just public express it in her personal blog. She did not tell you to leave comments. She did not ask you for advice or help. She needed to get something off her mind. Isn't that what blogs are for?
Of course you are free to comment! But why comment if it will end up being useless because of some arrogant and unfriendly attitude that comes with it?
Be nice, play friendly, and maybe one day, you will be taken seriously as a helper. Until then, take some real hospitable advice that is not inconstant and wishy washy: If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it. Have a nice day!Many blessings, peace, and love to you Mr. Anonymous! Looking forward to our next chat!
you are either together or not. people who are "together" have displays of affect and drop the love bug word. people who aren't and are completely platonic do not. now ask her or even him whether or not they are platonic. do platonic relationships keep themselves exclusive to each other? no. people who are together do. there is no " between relationship" between platonic relationships and commitment relationships. Call it cover up or not cover up. One is the truth and one is a lie. Then again what do I know? I make occasional typo's and use words like "dispair" oops i meant to say despair! Because poor grammar is all you can have against me. Go ahead... prove me wrong about your "inconstant"(according to ron) I meant to say inconsistency... if you care to. However, I am almost certain you won't prove me wrong because you feel no need to and because you can't. Goodbye!
oh darn tootin. i believe i have another case of poor grammar. it says "affect" and i meant affection. oh stupid me. i am a loser because i did that. oh me.
Referring to the two comments above.
(puppyface) Are you mad? (/puppyface) Awww, poor Mr. Anonymous and his ego are offended. Can't get over one's self.
Who said there is no between relationship? Have you read a book? Is this a known fact? Can you link me to a website that tells it how you say it is? Have you ever been in a relationship with that situation? Obviously not. Pulling stuff out of your butt again! You like doing that, don't you?
Have you ever heard of, "anything is possible?"
Why does it have to be all or nothing? Why don't we all just skip the boyfriend/girlfriend stage and get married? delete it completely! Isn't there a stage between boyfriend/and girlfriend and marriage called, "engaged"? Hmmm. Seems to be that there is such thing as in between. It does depend on ever person's circumstance and a person's view on a relationship. There are different types of relationships out there, buddy. Obviously you are not very open minded and you have a small perception on relationships. Maybe I am just assuming, but you leave me no choice but to assume that because of how you come off. The ability to give advice needs wisdom. Wise people know that they can't always be right. Wise people learn how to except with an open mind. Get wise, please, for all of us.
And the poor grammar is not all I have against you. I just like to correct you, it's fun and I enjoy it. It is your poor manners, your one sided rhetoric, your poor logic, and your ego that, I am sorry to say, is quite sad and get's in the way of your advice giving. Haven't you learned anything? Because of your "smartness" you bring out the worst in people and you seem so proud of it. People won't take you seriously. People won't respect you, and it clouds your "hospitable" advice.
oh darn tootin. i believe i have another case of poor grammar. it says "affect" and i meant affection. oh stupid me. i am a loser because i did that. oh me.
Why don't you grow up? Take responsibilities for the words you have said? Why don't you tell us who you really are? Why do you care so much about their relationship? Platonic, not platonic, why do you care so much? You enjoy talking about it? You like to be in their lives? Stalking much?
What do you have to hide? Seems like you are the one with the covering up buddy! Seems to me you need advice yourself! So I would personally like to give you some! Oh wait, I tried to, but you probably weren't reading everything thoroughly.
Did I not say if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it? Did I not say if you're not going to be friendly and considerate, your advice or whatever you want to call it is just, apparently, a load of crap?
Finally we agree on something: you are a loser. =) But you could be a winner. You should be one. Maybe one day when you take some advice to heart ;)
I thought this blog's name is "Nel thinks, U read." Not "Nel thinks, I leave irrational, useless, pointless comments under anonymous."
wow, thank you Ron for your great advice to this "anonymous" person. hey, "anonymous" if i have one advice to give you, please, just please stop being a stalker, seems like you've gone from part time to full time. don't have better things to do with your life? kind of pathetic how you worry so much about other people's lives than your own, that's literally how you've revealed yourself. btw, cover up? yes Ron's right, you've covered yourself up this whole time, so if you ever have the balls to show who you really are, please do. why do you seem a little upset too from the last comments I've read. what do you care if we are platonic or not, that has nothing to do with you does it. btw, i only know one person who says, "darn tootin." so if it is the person whom I have in mind, you're funny, you amuse the heck out of everyone reading this blog now, so basically joke's on you, thank you for being such great entertainment to us all. you have a great day now "anonymous".
Hey anonymous, they thought I was you. Just try to chill out a little. God bless :)
-Chris
haha the only reason i may consider "chillin out" is because someone else is getting blamed. sorry dude above me. didn't anyone ever telling you not to point fingers at other people? it makes you look bad.
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